Picture this: You’re in the middle of making breakfast—one hand flipping pancakes while the other is attempting to calm a toddler who insists socks are an abomination. In the chaos, it hits you like a splash of cold water—how am I supposed to network as a busy mom?
Trust me, I get it. As a mom of 4, I know the daily hustle can feel like a never-ending juggling act. But here’s the thing, mama—networking isn’t just for the corporate types in tailored suits. It’s for you too. Whether you’re looking to grow your career, launch a business, or simply learn from others, building a strong professional network is a game changer.
So, let’s dive into why networking matters and how you can build those all-important connections—without dropping your metaphorical (or literal) pancake in the process.
The Value of Networking (Even for Moms!)
Let’s think of networking as a village. You know how they say, “It takes a village to raise a child?” Well, it also takes a village to build a thriving professional life. That village is made up of people who can offer you support, advice, opportunities, and a good old shoulder to lean on.
When you connect with other moms, professionals, or entrepreneurs, you create opportunities for growth. And no, networking doesn’t mean attending stuffy events where you exchange awkward small talk and business cards (thank goodness, right?). It’s about building genuine relationships—both online and offline—where there’s a mutual exchange of value.
Start Small, But Start Now
You might be thinking, “Where on earth do I even begin?” The good news is, you already have the tools to start networking in your hand—literally. Your phone and laptop are powerful gateways to professional relationships.
- Online Networking
If you’re not already on LinkedIn, this is your sign to hop on and polish up that profile, mama! LinkedIn is more than just an online résumé—it’s a community. Follow professionals in your field, join groups related to your interests (I’m part of a couple of mompreneur ones myself!), and don’t be shy to connect with others. A quick “Hey, I love what you’re doing and would love to learn more about your journey!” goes a long way. It’s not about collecting connections like Pokémon cards—it’s about building meaningful ones. - Social Media
Platforms like Instagram and Facebook are also gold mines for networking. Follow women entrepreneurs, join mom groups, or interact with fellow moms in the comments. One of my closest business connections started when I commented on another mom’s post about balancing work and kids. Before I knew it, we were brainstorming collaboration ideas. A single comment can open doors! - Offline Networking
I know what you’re thinking—attending events or meet-ups with little ones in tow? Yikes! But it doesn’t have to be overwhelming. Many cities have mompreneur groups or community gatherings where moms like you connect. Check out local business meet-ups or attend workshops focused on your interests. And, if you can’t make it to an in-person event, there are virtual networking events, too! Sometimes, just showing up can lead to opportunities you didn’t even know existed.
The Secret Sauce: Authenticity
Let’s be real, no one enjoys forced conversations. The beauty of networking as a mom is that we already know how to connect in authentic, meaningful ways. After all, we’re used to building relationships with our kids’ teachers, pediatricians, and fellow moms on the playground. Use that same skill to create professional connections. Be yourself, share your story, and don’t be afraid to show your authentic journey—pancakes, messy buns, and all.
Networking doesn’t have to be daunting or time-consuming. You don’t need to wait until the stars align perfectly, or until the kids are older. Start small, start now, and watch how the power of connection transforms not just your career, but your life.
So, mama, the next time you find yourself scrolling through Instagram or LinkedIn during naptime, take a moment to connect. Your village is out there, and I promise, they’re ready to cheer you on. Let’s build it together!
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What’s been your biggest challenge when it comes to networking? Have you found any creative ways to connect with others? Drop a comment below—I’d love to hear from you!