Foster care children are among the most vulnerable in the world, so it’s no surprise that the majority face mental and behavioral health problems. When you’re taken out of your home by a stranger and placed in a new home or congregate setting with more strangers, you’re bound to experience anger, confusion, fear, and distrust.
The Effects of Early Childhood Trauma
Common mental health disorders seen among foster care youth include:
Post-traumatic stress disorder
Reactive attachment disorder
Anxiety disorder
Depression
Borderline personality disorder
Social phobia
Oppositional defiant disorder
Conduct disorder
Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)
Separation anxiety disorder
Eating disorders3
In many foster care cases, children are removed from their biological home due to maltreatment, abuse, or neglect, which means the child has likely experienced physical, emotional, or psychological trauma.
for parents to give themselves permission to get creative and think outside the box. Most importantly, parents should strive to see the world from their child’s point of view and imagine how difficult it may be for the child to integrate the inherent split adoption creates. Adopted children and teens want and need their parents to be their advocates at birthdays, holidays, and every day, and to lead the conversations until they feel comfortable doing so.
Not only do these children need proper mental health care, but they need ongoing support from their guardians, social workers, and state agencies.
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starts in the womb, so even for children relinquished at birth, this represents a significant trauma and attachment (1 )Adoption is often forgotten when speaking about trauma, leading to a form of disenfranchised grief, which is grief that is not typically acknowledged or validated by society. Both the trauma and the unrecognized grief may contribute to significant mental health issues. Here are some ways this affects adoptees.
Racism and the adoption journey
Prior to 2000, most psychology researchers applied a more “color-blind” prism to international adoption, similar to the framing that adoption agencies used at that time, Lee said.
“They were really trying to make the case that the color of one’s skin, the cultural background of a child, whether it’s the same or different from the family, is less relevant than just growing up in a warm, nurturing home,” said Lee, who published one of the first reviews of transracial adoption research in 2003 (The Counseling Psychologist, Vol. 31, No. 6, 2003).
Vulnerability to microaggressions
Psychologists may find that therapy enables adoptees to share their struggles with bias and discrimination, which they may not have felt comfortable broaching with adoptive parents and other family members.
have seen the damage caused when children are deprived of their basic needs:
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Separation anxiety is a normal phase of most children’s development. Children between nine and 12 months old often become upset or sometimes even hysterical when their primary caretaker leaves the room. Children who were adopted out of orphanages or the foster care system are no different — they experience separation anxiety, too.
Adopted children can also have attachment issues or delays resulting from their early experiences, which change the way we think about separation anxiety.
don’t think that separation is that tenuous or fragile a moment,” says Aronson. “I feel it’s an opportunity to use common sense.” For example, if you are cooking or cleaning, you can put your child in a pack-n-play. As you work, you can make eye contact, but you also get a few things done. A baby carrier such as an Ergo allows you to “wear” your baby or toddler and maintain closeness whil
e still being productive.
Dr Aronson has some very useful advice for those of us who are often concerned about our parenting decisions in relation to our children’s history: “If you’re asking questions, you’re not messing up that badly! Give yourself a break.
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